Thinking of chocolates and a candle-lit dinner? Forget about it. Travel is how to keep the romance alive.
Does your once thriving relationship now seem a little…. boring? Are you finding less and less to talk about, and nothing to look forward to? In a new relationship, enthusiasm runs high and every encounter is planned and intentional. But over time, the heat dissipates just like hot water in a shower. It can be challenging to keep those loving feelings while juggling home, health, relationships and career. The good news is that you CAN feel like a newlywed again while building your business or career.
A US Travel Association survey shows that 63% of people surveyed believe a vacation or weekend getaway can spark romance. There are simple strategies and tools you can use to supercharge your vacations and rejuvenate your relationship.
Evaluate Relationship Imbalance
As relationships progress amidst the stresses of life, often the intimacy of security replaces the thrill of discovery, and the couple runs the risk of striking an imbalance leading to boredom and indifference. Evaluate whether, or how far, you’ve allowed your relationship to get out of balance. Is it time to reignite the romance? Partners in great relationships regularly check the temperature of their relationship to strike their own perfect balance between security and discovery.
Plan for Romance
Vacations are fun, of course, but they can be so much more. The science of emotions provides practical and simple strategies to fight boredom and indifference. Use creative intention to schedule and bring specific elements into your vacations that help you spark discovery, adventure, and excitement in your relationship again.
Integrate for Life
It’s easy to discover new sides of your partner, and yourself, that surprise and delight you when you experience new things together. Travel allows couples to build a special bond that differs from that of everyday life. The key is to carry the energy you’ve created in your romantic retreat into the routine of your life using tactics that maximize your time and tools that erase your cost concerns.
As a result of the travel strategies I teach, couples have epic experiences and amazing memories that make them feel like newlyweds again – but with more restraint! Create your own connection plan with the free ebook Plan to Connect – Travel Dates that Rejuvenate Your Relationship or call me at 256-797-8968 to schedule your complimentary customized Romantic Relationship Blueprint.
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